Thursday, February 24, 2011

Curry & Customs

Jet lag got the best of me yesterday... Sorry, I know all of my dedicated readers were waiting with bated breath. But now that I have just finished eating last night's leftover Indian food, I feel compelled to begin my story of India. (I thought I would not want to eat Indian food for a long time after my trip, but I've been seriously been daydreaming about Indian food during my classes all week, and last night I swear my blood was itching for curry. There's must be some kind of addictive agent in those delicious Indian spices.)

Alright, I'll start with February 10th, the day we arrived in Kolkata...

Or night, rather. After flying from Nashville to Newark to Frankfurt, the last leg of which I literally had the seat next to a screaming baby, we finally arrived around 1:00AM India Standard Time. Coming out of customs, we were met by Jaiashree and Piyos (hope I got the spelling right on those) who greeted us with big smiles.

Jaiashree and Piyos are an essential part of the SEED (save, entrust, equip, disciple) Society, an organization that was formed in 2009. Back before SEED was in existence, Jaiashree worked for a well-known international Christian organization. But while she was doing good work with this organization, she saw needs that weren't being met in Kolkata, particularly in the slum areas. So she left to serve the "least of these", an amazing step of faith that led to the creation of SEED... and, a couple years later, also led to meeting 16 Americans at the airport at 1:00 in the morning.

Stepping out of the airport into the amazingly warm air, we had our first encounter with beggars.

                      Child: "Madam, I can have chocolate?"
                      Me: "Oh I'm sorry, I don't have any chocolate..."
                      Child: "Okay, rupees is fine then."

They were just little boys, who apparently lacked adult supervision and a bedtime. We had been explicitly instructed beforehand not to give money to beggars... but no one had mentioned what to do in the event that chocolate was requested. One of the boys had a Snickers bar in in hand, so I think giving chocolate to beggars is okay.

Without much delay, we all piled into a little bus - which would become "our" well-loved bus by the end of the trip - with all of our luggage. And I don't use the word "piled" loosely here...


Keep in mind there was a row of people sitting on the right side of these bags too. I don't know how I managed to get a whole seat to myself, and by a window! Unfortunately, I couldn't see much of Kolkata through the darkness as we rode to Seva Kendra, the Catholic-affiliated hotel-type place where we stayed. What I did see out the window were buildings upon buildings, most of which looked abandoned/run-down. I figured this was an anomaly, like a sketchy part of town, or that things would look different in the light of day.

Nope. That's pretty much what Kolkata looks like in the daylight, on every street... just add 15 million people. And buses. And cars. And rickshaws. And bikes. Even after being there over a week, all the streets looked identical to me. There are just shops upon shops with no gaps in between, and all of the buildings look like they were once beautiful, but that they'd somehow lost their luster along the way. (I had the recurring thought while in Kolkata that if I could just get enough paint, I could fix the place up. A fresh coat of paint, a bath... all surface solutions for a city with deep pain.) And the strange thing was, there could be a hardware store adjacent to an MRI diagnostics building adjacent to a used bookstore, all with multiple vendors out front selling food and plastic trinkets.

When we got to Seva Kendra, a few of us put our bare feet in the soil because supposedly this acclimates you to a new environment. Or maybe we just did it for the photo op? Either way, I stand by the decision 100%.


After washing our feet, we all settled into our respective rooms for some much needed beauty sleep. Here's a (lovely) picture of me and Angie, my "roomster" for the trip, upon our arrival.



And here's the room, and the bathroom.




At first glance, I didn't think we had a shower. And then I realized... the entire bathroom is the shower. You can see the shower head to the right. I was very apprehensive about the whole thing. I actually woke up the next morning dreading the fact that I needed to bathe. I made Angie go first. Fortunately, I got used to our situation as the week went on. It's kinda fun, actually... you get to squeegee the bathroom floor when you're done to get all the water into a little drain in the corner (the brown spot on the wall in the pic). Okay, maybe that doesn't sound too enticing, but in a strange way I personally found it entertaining.

Oh, it's also important to note the mosquito nets over the beds. I miss my mosquito net dearly. At night, we would sleep with the window open and our mosquito nets around our beds. It's like being in a cocoon, except instead of being a bug, you're a human. And the bugs are on the outside and they can't get it in. It's a beautiful concept, really.

On that note, I'm off to sleep in my tragically net-less bed.

(I didn't intend to write in this much detail. Tomorrow I'll write about the actual DAY of February 10th.)

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Where do I start?

I've been back in the States since Saturday and by now I've been asked by many people:
                       
                          "How was India?"
                           "So... what exactly did you do in India?"
                          "Tell me all about India!"

Err... yeah, India was good. It was a really great experience. It was awesome.

I actually came across a great India-conversation avoidance tactic earlier today. I was scratching my head with my left hand, trying to come up with a good answer, which consequently made my engagement ring very obvious to the questioner. The sight of the ring completely stopped the line of India-questioning. "Ooh, that's new! When did you get engaged!?" Yes. Good. Much easier to talk about. Unfortunately, I'm afraid this technique only works on females who don't already know I'm engaged.

Maybe I just haven't had enough time to process all the sights, sounds and emotions that I've experienced over the past two weeks. Or maybe I'm just afraid that my words can never do justice to all that I've witnessed... because they can't. But I'll give you my words, anyway.

I kept a journal while I was in India with the intention of sharing my experiences on here when I came back. So, that's what I'm going to do over the next few entries. I only took about 5 pictures with my own camera while in India, but hopefully I can mooch some photos from my fellow mission trippers to help me tell this story.

Hope you enjoy what I have to say (tomorrow). For now, just know...


Sunday, November 14, 2010

Personal Statement

[N.B. Since I've raised all the money I need for India and I won't be able to write more about India until I come back from my trip in February, I'm giving myself free reign to write about whatever I want in the interim.]

Have you ever re-read something you wrote a long time ago and hoped you were the same person?

Tonight I plugged my external hard drive into my computer to look through old pictures, and I came across some documents from high school. I read through a surprisingly intriguing 20 page paper on poetry analysis, and I laughed at the completely ridiculous papers required for my dance classes. Here's a gem from a paper on dance dress code and conduct:
"I am always in dress code, except a couple of times when I wear the wrong tights, or forget my ballet shoes. I always take off any warm-ups after pliés if I wear any at all. I actively participate in every class and rehearsal."
But I digress. I'm not hoping to be that same girl who forgets her ballet shoes. I'm woefully certain that that aspect of my personality is permanently encoded in my DNA. Of real interest was my Personal Statement for admission to UF, written five and a half years ago. The closing paragraph reads as follows:
"Success, to me, is meeting the standards I have set for myself. It’s achieving my everyday goals that slowly lead to big accomplishments. But I can’t consider myself successful if my life has only impacted me. Success is also having made a difference, for the better, in people’s lives. If I am truly loved by others, and if I love myself, then I have reached the very pinnacle of success."
Well said, 18-year-old Tyler. You were wise beyond your years... even if you didn't always wear the right color tights to dance class.

ধন্যবাদ !!

I'm working on my Bengali because I'm definitely going to India!! (The title of this post reads "dhonnobad" in Bengali script, which means thank you.) I've raised ALL of my funding, and I'm so grateful to everyone who has so generously given! I seriously can't thank you all enough; I'm amazed at how fast it all came together. It's kind of ridiculous, really.

After church today, our little team got together for some Indian food here in Nashville, to get to know each other a little better before we're stuck in a foreign country together. I'd never had Indian food before, but it was delicious, and everyone going on the trip is wonderful... and now I'm even more excited! PLUS, we all got our passports back with Indian "Tourist Visa"s inside them, so we're pretty legit now.

Another cool thing we've been doing as a team is weekly devotionals via email. For the 14 weeks leading up to the trip, one of our 14 team members writes a small devotional about a verse or something that they've been thinking about recently. It's been a great way to get in the right mind set about the trip, get to know everyone a little more, and count down the weeks!

As of today... 12 weeks till Kolkata!!


বিদায় ("bidaa-ye" = good bye)

Monday, October 18, 2010

Ephesians 3:20-21

Almost 75% there!!




"Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen."



Sunday, October 10, 2010

To all 4,350 of my dearest, closest friends...

As of right now, I currently have 13% of the total amount I need to make it to India!




It may not seem like a lot, but I am STOKED! Everyone who has given so far, y'all are absolutely amazing, and I am so blessed by you!

As of four days ago, I had nothing. So this is truly incredible!

Any little bit counts!
If 87 people give $25, I will have reached my goal.
Or if 218 people give $10...
Or if 435 people give $5...
Or if 2,175 people give $1...
Or if 4,350 people give $.50!

I don't know if I have 4,350 friends... but let's find out!

Thank you, thank you, thank you!

I love everysingleone of you.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

"God is good, all the time."

I was stopped at a red light last Sunday, en route to church, probably absentmindedly singing a Christian song without really thinking about the words...

I noticed a homeless man with a cardboard sign walking down the line of stopped cars. Not an unusual sight in Nashville, unfortunately. But I was feeling charitable (and I had just gotten cash back at Publix), so instead of awkwardly trying to pretend like I didn't see him, I decided to roll down my window when the man came near my car.
[Side note: Someone should do a study on when people are most-likely to give to the homeless... I bet "on the way to or from church" would be one of the most common times.]

I know a lot of people believe you shouldn't give to "panhandlers," and they have logical reasons to back their beliefs... but honestly, what do I care about $2? That won't buy me a latte. (Pun intended.) And I'm admittedly naive; I like to think that not every person on the side of the road will spend their "earned" money on booze.

So, in my haze of feel-good pre-church charitability, I gave the man a whopping $2. His response is what made the encounter even memorable at all. He smiled and said "Thank you, young lady... God is good all the time!" Now, I'm used to hearing "God bless you" -- or something to that effect -- but I have never gotten this particular response before. And it made me think.


Wow, God IS good all the time!


Not only is he good, just in his very nature, but he also promises good things for us. Here is just a taste of the many verses that proclaim His goodness:

And he passed in front of Moses, proclaiming,
"The Lord, the Lord, the compassionate and gracious God,
slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness,
maintaining love to thousands,
and forgiving wickedness,
rebellion and sin."
Exodus 34:6-7


For the Lord is good and his love endures forever;
his faithfulness continues through all generations.
Psalm 100:5



It's the simple truths, the ones that I've heard time and again, that can absolutely come crashing over me sometimes. And this particular crashing-truth came from a man with likely nothing to his name but a piece of cardboard. I am immeasurably blessed. With all that I've been given, I want to bless others in whatever small ways I can. But most likely, as was the case last Sunday, I will only find myself doubly blessed in return.

Who knew that a sermon could come before the actual church service?



**Disclaimer: This story is not analogous with my India support-raising. If you donate $2 (which would be amazing!), you will not necessarily receive any form of spiritual wisdom, enlightenment, crashing-truth, etc.